If you live in Seattle, you know how long winters can feel. Short days, gray skies, and a steady drizzle that makes staying inside (and in your head) a little too easy. By the time the city finally starts to green up again, many people are carrying an emotional residue that no one warned them […]
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Each April, Autism Awareness Month invites us to pause and reflect on how we understand and support individuals on the autism spectrum. In recent years, there has been an important shift from simply raising awareness to genuine acceptance. This shift matters. Awareness acknowledges that autism exists, acceptance asks us to respond with respect, curiosity, and
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When one partner is leaning out and the other wants to work things out, traditional couples therapy often struggles to meet both partners’ needs. That’s where discernment counseling comes in; a short-term, structured approach designed specifically for Seattle-area couples who feel stuck or unsure whether to stay together or separate. At Steffen Counseling Services in
Online vs in‑person therapy is one of the most common decisions people in Seattle wrestle with when they’re thinking about starting counseling. Both options can be deeply effective; the real question is which format fits your life, your nervous system, and your season right now. In this post, we’ll walk you through how to navigate
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Each generation is shaped by distinct cultural forces that deeply influence how we experience and respond to stress. When we name those patterns with care and context, it becomes easier to understand ourselves, our families, and our relationships across generations. In this edition of our blog series Exploring Generational Differences in Therapy, we’ll dive into
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Therapy doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Your emotional well-being is connected to your body, your medical care, your support network, and often, other professionals who walk beside you in different parts of your life. A comprehensive care team brings those pieces together in a coordinated, collaborative way, so you’re not left managing a bunch of
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What is nontraditional grief? When most people think of grief, they picture mourning a clear, traditional loss—like the death of a loved one. Yet grief often appears in less recognized ways. Nontraditional grief, sometimes called disenfranchised grief, happens when we experience a loss that others may not view as significant or worthy of mourning. These
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In therapy, we often say that healthy boundaries are an act of self-respect. They protect our time, energy, and emotional well-being—and they create strong, balanced relationships. Yet for many people, the word boundaries can feel intimidating. Where do we even start? How do we set them without guilt or conflict? Whether you’re navigating relationships as
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The following is an excerpt from the blog series “A Few Things I Noticed While Trying to Improve Myself” by Mollie Player. Recently, while reading various reactions to Elizabeth Gilbert’s latest (super controversial) book, All the Way to the River, I came across a post that subtly disregarded her readership as “fed up middle-aged women.” It was
You’ve been dating someone with sexual trauma you care about deeply, and things were going well—until a casual touch, a certain word, or even a well-meaning question brought everything to a sudden halt. Your partner froze, pulled away, or left the room. Your heart sinks. You didn’t mean to hurt them. Now what? The moment
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