The Challenge of Finding Male-Identified Therapists

In recent years, the importance of mental health has gained widespread recognition, prompting many individuals to seek therapy as a means of support and self-improvement. While the mental health field has become increasingly inclusive, a noticeable challenge persists: the scarcity of male-identified therapists. This shortage raises questions about accessibility and the potential benefits that a male-identified therapist’s unique approach can bring to the therapeutic process, particularly for those who have a strong preference around their therapist’s gender identity.

The Statistics:

According to recent studies, the gender disparity in the mental health profession is striking. While therapists who identify as women dominate the field, comprising around 80% of therapists, men make up only about 20%. This striking difference has implications for those seeking therapy, as it may contribute to the difficulty many face in finding a male-identified therapist.

Why the Disparity Exists:

Several factors contribute to this scarcity. Deep-seated societal stereotypes and gender norms have long dictated that men should be stoic, emotionally resilient, and less likely to express vulnerability. Consequently, many men may feel uncomfortable seeking help, and when they do, they tend to seek out female therapists, with whom they report being more comfortable expressing emotion. The increase in women entering the field of psychology has, over decades, led to therapy becoming a “pink collar” job, with lower salary rates, which has subsequently discouraged men from entering the mental health profession, creating a self-perpetuating cycle that further amplifies the gender gap.

Ways to Find Male-Identified Therapists:

Despite the challenges, there are effective strategies for those seeking the support of a male therapist. It’s essential to acknowledge that these therapists do exist, and their skills and expertise are valuable. Here are some ways to find a therapist:

  1. Online Directories: Utilize online therapist directories that allow you to filter results by gender. Platforms like Psychology Today provide comprehensive search options, making it easier to find “male therapists near me
  2. Steffen Counseling Services: our newest clinical intern, Scott Liebert, is taking new clients at our sliding scale rate of $60-$75 per session
  3. Professional Networks: Tap into professional networks and organizations that focus on mental health. Many associations actively promote diversity in the field and may offer resources to connect you with these therapists
  4. Ask for Referrals: Seek recommendations from friends, family, or colleagues who have experience with therapy. Personal referrals can provide valuable insights into a therapist’s approach and effectiveness
  5. Therapy Apps: Explore therapy apps that offer a variety of therapists, allowing you to specify your preference for a male therapist. These platforms often provide a more flexible and convenient way to access mental health support

The Approach of Male Therapists:

Once you’ve found your preferred therapist, you may wonder how their approach differs and why it might be beneficial. While every therapist is unique, some male-identified therapists may bring specific qualities to the therapeutic relationship that resonate with certain individuals. Here are some unique aspects of working with these therapists:

  1. Different Perspectives: Male therapists can offer different perspectives on common issues, providing insights shaped by their own experiences and understanding of masculinity, gender roles, and the more toxic elements of our cultural approach to gender. This diversity of viewpoints can enrich the therapeutic process and contribute to more unique solutions
  2. Challenging Stereotypes: these therapists can challenge traditional gender stereotypes from within their community, creating a safe space for clients to explore and express emotions freely. Breaking down societal expectations can allow for a more authentic therapeutic relationship
  3. Navigating Masculinity: Many men face unique challenges related to societal expectations of masculinity. Male-identified therapists may have navigated these expectations themselves, and can offer guidance and support in addressing issues such as emotional expression, vulnerability, and the pressure to conform to rigid gender norms
  4. Building Trust: For some individuals, building trust with a therapist may be influenced by the therapist’s gender. Feeling understood and accepted is crucial in therapy, and some people prefer a therapist who they feel can personally relate to their presenting problems


While the shortage of male therapists remains a notable challenge, it’s essential to recognize the valuable contributions they bring to the mental health profession. The unique approach of male therapists, informed by their experiences and perspectives, can be instrumental in helping clients who have a strong preference regarding their therapist’s gender. By actively calling attention to this disparity in the mental health field, we at Steffen Counseling Services hope to contribute to a more inclusive and diverse mental health landscape, breaking down barriers and ensuring that everyone can access the support they need.